First Cousins

Once a quarter the first cousins of my Mother's brothers and sister get together for a meal and fellowship.  When the first of us passed away a few years ago, her spouse came up with this idea and I must say it was a terrific idea!

My Mother is the last of her siblings and she gets lonesome for her family and their shared memories.  It is a true boost to her morale when these dinners occur. 

Time doesn't stop for any one and even though we think we will be here forever we all know that our days are numbered and time gets shorter with each passing day.

It was our honor to host a barbecue for these cousins last month and we had such a good time and great conversation.  The ability to linger throughout the day and truly sit down and talk to each and everyone was a treat.  I connected more with some of my cousins on this occasion than I have at any of the other dinners. 

On Friday night we had the traditional barbecue fire and some of the guys cooked all night.  There is nothing better for relaxation and visiting than a cook fire.  Those that made it out on Friday night we thank you - we appreciated the help and enjoyed the company.

For those that couldn't make it, we missed you!  Attached are a few shots of a wonderful weekend.

What will you do when your parents are gone?

I have often wondered what affect the loss of my parents will have on my life.  I talk to one or both of them every day, but only see them at the most weekly.  I look at my mother who has lost both parents and is the only surviving sibling and wonder what her life must be like.  I am not dependent on my parents or my sister, but the knowledge  that they are there gives me emotional and psychological support.  I know I can pick up the phone and talk to any of the three.  What would I do if that was not an option?